"To me, gender is between your ears, not between your legs. I've felt male as far back as I can remember. As a child, it was really clear. I felt like a boy."

--Chaz Bono, on Good Morning America

Michele O'Mara is a gay couples therapist and life coach. Her relationship advice column updates each Tuesday.

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